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Discover how to embrace your unstoppable new chapter of your midlife years, filled with
renewed energy, courage & clarity
Meet Carmen MacDougall
For over 22 years, I’ve helped transform the lives of my clients through coaching and therapy, empowering them to make meaningful changes in all areas of their life.
Using a proven 3-part process (The Midlife Reboost Method™), which has transformed the life of 100’s of my midlife clients – with a specialism in coaching those who have experienced the pain of divorce or loss of a partner – with the tools to overcome the dissatisfaction, anxiety & overwhelm, and stagnation that can come after these significant life events. This helps them to take decisive action, make aligned decisions and release what’s holding them back, so that they can step confidently into their exciting new chapter that awaits.
“My mission is to empower single, midlifers to bravely navigate life’s transition, giving them the tools to soar with confidence and discover the joy of embracing an unstoppable new life. To inspire them to put the ‘Happy’ back into their ‘Soul’. – Carmen says
The hummingbird is a spiritual symbol for joy, freedom, perseverance, creativity, love and self-healing. It’s ability to fly in all directions represent flexibility, adaptability, resilience and courage.
As your Coach, I will encourage you to learn how to use your beautiful wings, to trust that they are strong enough to guide you through your own self-healing journey. I will encourage you to persevere through change, and fly towards the wonderful new life which awaits you.
Have you been through some serious life changes such as divorce or widowhood? You’ve probably been the rock for everyone else — your children, your previous partner, your friends. But somewhere along the way, you got lost in the shuffle.
Now here you are, single, staring down at midlife, and if you’re honest, you don’t quite recognise the person in the mirror anymore. You’ve lost YOU!.
There’s a part of you that knows deep down that now is your time. This is the moment to rewrite the next chapter of your life, on your terms. And I’m here to tell you that the answer isn’t in chasing a new relationship or pretending you’re fine. It’s about getting grounded, finding your centre, and working on your inner happiness first.
We use a unique approach, with a powerful combination of therapeutic techniques: Neuro Linguistic Programming (Mindset Coaching) and Hypnotherapy with Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, to help our clients achieve their full potential, to help them to break free from mental health barriers and live a more fulfilled life.
I created The Midlife Reboost MethodTM because I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to feel like life has stripped away all the things you thought would be easy at this point. I know the pain of losing yourself in the process of life’s chaos. But I also know the exhilaration of rediscovering your true self. And I want that for you too.
After experiencing the pain of divorce or widowhood, somewhere along the way, you got lost and, you don’t quite recognise the person in the mirror anymore.
Maybe you’re a little stuck. A little burnt out. And if we’re being honest, a little scared to admit that this—this—isn’t what you signed up for.
But there’s a part of you that knows deep down… it’s your time. This is the moment to rewrite the next chapter of your life, on your terms. And I’m here to tell you that the answer isn’t in chasing a new relationship or pretending you’re fine. It’s about getting grounded, finding your centre, and working from the inside out.
Let’s be honest. You’re tired. Tired of seeing life pass by while you’re stuck in the same cycle. Tired of not feeling your best, maybe even feeling a bit unfit or lacking confidence. Tired of thinking, “I used to know who I was, but now… what the hell happened?”
You’ve given so much to others—your kids, your partner, your job—that you haven’t left much for you. But now? Now you’re done waiting for someone else to hand you happiness. Now you’re ready to stop saying, “One day…” and start making that day today.
You’ve spent years being the “good parent,” the supportive partner, the one who holds it all together. But somewhere along the way, you lost sight of what you want. You’ve been running on empty, trying to fill the void with all the wrong things. Maybe you’ve gained a little weight, your confidence has taken a hit, and you’re wondering if it’s too late to turn things around.
Here’s the truth: It’s not too late. You’re not too old, too far gone, or too stuck to make a serious change. The problem isn’t you—it’s that you’ve been focusing on everyone else for so long that you’ve forgotten how to focus on you. And that’s where the Midlife Reboost MethodTM comes in.
The truth is, you’ve spent years focused on everyone else—kids, partners, responsibilities—and somewhere in that process, you forgot who you are. Now, life has handed you a reset button. And while that might feel scary as hell, it’s also a gift. You get to decide what comes next.
. You’re becoming more spiritually aware, and you know filling the void with just anyone isn’t the answer. You need more than that. You’re ready for a full reboost—body, mind, and soul.
You’ve noticed that, the longer you stay stuck in life, the more you’ve turned to some of the destructive habits like overeating, procrastination, or binge-watching TV just to numb the dissatisfaction. However, you want your self-identity back, and do all the things you’ve lost along the way – get fit again, choose what you want to eat, start going out and making new friends and lead a healthier lifestyle.
You want a clear vision of what you truly want from life.
A rock-solid sense of confidence in the choices you make, knowing they’re aligned with what really matters to you.
The tools and support to tackle the tough stuff—whether it’s healing past wounds or taking charge of your finances, career, and relationships.
You’re ready to take the first step, and what to know more. You have nothing to lose…
This isn’t about finding a new partner or even a new job (though those things may come). This is about finding you—the real, unapologetic, confident, empowered you who’s been hiding for too long. This is about rebuilding your health, your mental and emotional wellbeing, your finances, your relationship with your kids, and your self-worth.
We dive into all areas of your life, because working on just one part won’t cut it. You can lose weight, but if your mindset is still stuck, that’s not going to help. You can land a new job, but if you’re still waking up with anxiety at 3 a.m., that’s not the answer. We’re here to address everything—holistically and powerfully..
By working with me and the team at Happy Soul Coaching, you’re not just going to see changes in one area of your life—you’re going to see changes across the board. Your health, your relationships, your finances, your career, your self-worth—it’s all connected, and we’re going to tackle it all.
Imagine this: In three months, you wake up excited for the day ahead. You feel energised, confident, and grounded. You’re trying new hobbies, meeting new people, maybe even dating again—but this time, from a place of true inner strength. You’re no longer looking for someone to fill a void because you’ve filled it yourself. You are your own anchor.
I get it—you’re scared of starting over. But here’s the truth: You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to take the first step. The Midlife Reboost MethodTM is designed to help you move from a place of fear and uncertainty to one of confidence, clarity, and action.
This is your time to stop waiting for life to happen and start making it happen. You deserve to feel amazing. You deserve to be happy. And you deserve to live the life you’ve always dreamed of.
Is this you? Are you navigating the emotional turmoil of divorce or the loss of a partner? Do you feel stuck in midlife, believing there’s nothing exceptional left for you and you have to settle for less? You’re most likely experiencing your fair share of anxiety and overwhelm, stress and fear, loneliness and depression from the pain from the weight of your experience.
It’s time to rewrite that story! Our personalised Mindset Coaching with CBT Hypnotherapy is your chance to explore the deeper emotions and mental hurdles you’re facing as you transition into this new phase of life. In each one hour session, conducted via Zoom or in person, you’ll be guided by your dedicated Therapist, in a safe space, and your won pace to travel into the heart of your challenges and discover the new way of being that awaits you.
This isn’t just a talk; it’s a transformative experience of self healing.
Through your coaching therapy, you’ll be supported to tackle the pain and fear of change head-on, equipped with resilience and coping skills, helping you navigate the fog of uncertainty while cultivating the inner strength needed for self-healing.
You’ll most likely want to know more about how Carmen and her team can help put your ‘Happy’ back into your Soul, so that you can rejuvenate your life, or your experience within your workplace. Whether you’re a young adult, a midlifer or a leader who wants to re-engage your team, it’s great to have the chance to explore what’s possible, so book your focused complimentary 30-minute call with Carmen.
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